Rules & privacy
Beta version. Updated . We'll update these before full launch and tell you what changed.
Two things get you banned instantly, everywhere
- XXX content on OurWayMatters. No sexual or pornographic clips, comments or messages.
- Predators. Anyone who sexualizes, grooms or targets minors is banned from OurWayMatters and Castle by the Beach for good. Child sexual abuse material is reported to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC), as US law requires, and we cooperate with police.
Just~A~Troll, our safety crawler, scans rooms and clips for both. Anything it flags is pulled right away while a person reviews it.
OurWayMatters rules
- You must be 13 or older to have an account. The main feed is 18+; ages 13 to 17 use the kids section.
- Post only what you made or have the right to share.
- No harassment, hate, threats, or posting someone's private details.
- No scams, spam or fake giveaways.
- Dangerous stunts, weapons for sale and drugs for sale come down.
Creator earnings
Creators keep 50% of everything they earn on OurWayMatters. Gifts, tips and payouts are split 50/50, and the split is fixed in writing.
No pay grabs over violations. If a clip breaks a rule, the clip comes down. Money you already earned stays yours. The only exception is where the law requires us to hold funds, for example money tied to a crime or a court order.
TheMunch rules
Getting in
- Adults only. You must be 18 or older, and adult content must be legal where you live.
- Every member verifies a mobile phone number. One account per number.
- Where state law requires it, we'll also confirm age with an ID check.
- Your phone number and IP address are recorded when you enter. If an owner or mod boots you, that number and IP can't come back.
Inside the rooms
- Consent first. Ask before voice, take no for an answer.
- Never share anyone's photos, real name or personal details without their OK.
- Room owners make the rules for their room and choose their mods. Owners and mods can remove anyone.
- Room owners and mods can be in a room without showing in the list.
- Owners can offer gift packs to bring people into their room. What's in a pack is up to the owner and has to be delivered as described.
- 1-on-1 voice is for subscribers. Either person can hang up or block at any time.
Mute, block, report
- Mute hides someone's clips or messages from you. They aren't told.
- Block stops someone from seeing you or reaching you.
- Report sends a clip, message or person to our review team. Reports for XXX content and child safety are acted on first.
Privacy: what we keep and why
| What | Why we keep it | How long |
|---|---|---|
| Username, email, password | To run your account and sign you in. Passwords are stored scrambled (hashed), never in plain text. | Until you delete your account |
| Date of birth | To keep under-13s off the site and under-18s out of TheMunch. | Until you delete your account |
| Phone number | TheMunch only: to verify you and enforce bans. | While your account exists, or as long as a ban lasts |
| IP address | Recorded at TheMunch entry and for security, to enforce bans and stop abuse. | Up to 12 months, or as long as a ban lasts |
| Clips, comments, messages | To show them to the people you share them with, and to check reports. | Until you delete them or your account |
| Reports and ban records | To keep people safe and meet legal duties. | As long as the law requires |
| Email list | To send drops and updates you signed up for. | Until you unsubscribe |
- We don't sell your personal information.
- We share information only with services that help run the site (hosting, payments, text messages), or with police and NCMEC when the law requires.
- You can ask for a copy of your data or ask us to delete it at any time.
- Every email has an unsubscribe link.
Contact
Questions, appeals or data requests: coming soon
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